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杂感20150311
以下内容据说是传自杜克大学。
1 Pay close attention. This is your life.
???可能是忽略的太多，现今无法体悟这句话是什么意思
2 People always obsess over big decisions(e.g., which job/position to accept), but really, tomorrow will always be a blur. Plan with calmness, and then take the leap in the direction you think is best, knowing that there will rarely be a 'right' or 'wrong' but just a choice that leads to the next steps of life.
关键词： Tommrow is a blur. Do what you think is best now! Choices is just choices, there is no right or wrong choices, but just a choice that is a leap leading you into your tommrow. 选择你认为最好的选择，然后平静地跟着你的选择走向明天。
3 You will get the more satisfaction about the relationships you form than from the things you acquire.
关键词： More happiness from relationships than things you accquire.
4 Respect people over job titles. Everyone's life has meaning.
关键词： 尊重工作中，生活中遇到的每一个人，而不是被titles所蒙蔽。
5 Learn to reframe rejection. Wether you're working towards a leadership position or building a company, people will frequently tell you no. Instead of seeing it as a shutdown, look at it as an opportunity to figure out why. Are you asking the wrong person? Have you not yet demonstrated you can handle the new responsibility? Over time, "no" becomes just another opportunity to wait, learn and try again.
关键词： Reframe "no", adjust it as a opportunity to know your situation better! 不同的意见总是好的，因为它总是逼迫或者让你轻松地从另一个角度认清你的状况。
6 Find a place where you can be challenged. Ask yourself: Am I proud of my work?
关键词： Always shape yourself better where you find your passion.
7 Don't be afraid to diverge from your 'plan'. Embrace ambiguity. The uncertain and what may appear high risk in relationships, jobs and life is usually very cool and worthwhile.
关键词： DO NOT BE AFRAID from your plan. 人与人之间的区别在计划之外体现的淋漓尽致，从现在开始 EMBRACE AMBIGUITY!!!.
8 As you move forward into the next stage of your life, do not forget to stop and look back to discover the meaning of where your have been. That will help you better understand who you are, where you may be heading, and how you can get there.
关键词： Discover the treasure of your past for your tommrow. 看清过去，来拓展未来的可能性。
9 Never confuse being educated with being smart.
???受教育的目的何在？用什么样的心态来接受教育？？？
10 Read outside of your chosen field, read broadly, read enthusiastically. Creativity is a necessary life skill and some inspirations will come from unexpected sources.
关键词： Free your mind through reading. Reading is a weapon to jump outside of boxes. 阅读就像滚雪球一样，越滚越大。
11 Be true to yourself. Be willing to learn and to be coachable.
只有诚实对待自己才能真诚对待别人。要诚实地对待自己真的很难，你必须承认你自己的不完美，你必须承认自己的失败，你必须承认自己也只是一个普通人。。。。。(还有好多。)。。。
12 Give back - serve from a sense of gratitude.
感恩是一种态度，更是一种自我状态的选择。
13 Stick with it, and keep moving
人生最大的遗憾在于坚持了不该坚持的，而放弃了不该放弃的。明智的选择，谨慎的行动是一种生活的阅历。 应该如何来坚持？？？？？？
Author: mashomee
Created: 2015-03-11 Wed 20:10
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转载于:https://www.cnblogs.com/mashomee/p/4330840.html
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